All About Scorpio

Exploring the positive and negative characteristics of Scorpio

Let’s talk about Scorpio! Individuals born under the constellation of Scorpio—a.k.a. the Scorpion—can be very charismatic but also very aggressive. They tend to carry an air of mystery wherever they go. Scorpios are determined and practical yet also exceptionally intuitive. They refuse to have others tell them what to do. In fact, for Scorpios, life is all about maintaining power. When you meet one, they often give off a cold, independent vibe to hide their inner passions. Vulnerability and failure are very frightening to them. Scorpios always want to be the best, never second place.

The Scorpio Personality

Here’s the thing with Scorpios, they will never be the first to argue, but if confronted, prepare for battle! Scorpios see every confrontation as a struggle or, even worse, a war. They will do everything they can to come out victorious. To avoid this dramatic outcome, it’s best to stick to jokes and humor with Scorpios if you need to vocalize disagreements. Once you get on a Scorpio’s wrong side, it isn’t easy to recover.

Essential Characteristics of Scorpio

Want to know some of the basics about Scorpios? Well, for starters, they are very sexual and seductive creatures. Scorpios can turn eyes everywhere they go with their charm. Scorpios tend to hold grudges for long periods of time, too, even over the smallest things. Scorpios are very fair in their actions and tend to be more spiritual than others. They are honest but also have an excellent sense of humor. Scorpios are also generally independent and keep matters in their own hands.

 

Scorpio in Love

Struck by a Scorpio’s love? Good for you since Scorpios don’t give out their love or trust that easily! When Scorpios finally open up to love, they are especially compassionate and loyal. They never want superficial bonds. Instead, Scorpios always keep their eyes open for how they can intensify and deepen their connections with those they love. Authenticity and acts of kindness are the best ways to earn a Scorpio’s loyalty and trust.

Scorpio in Relationships

Got yourself involved with a Scorpio? Most likely, they will show their affection through their unique humor—which sometimes means offensive jokes. Don’t worry too much, though, because Scorpios are fiercely loyal. Just don’t expect to imprison them in the relationship anytime soon. Scorpios must maintain their freedom even when in a loving relationship. Scorpios sometimes lock themselves in their own space for hours or even days without communicating with their partner. This is because they need to recharge after too much interpersonal time.

 

Scorpio Men Going Through a Breakup

Don’t expect a Scorpio man to forgive and forget once you break up with him. The pain and heartbreak he feels will essentially make that impossible. Scorpio men find it very hard to let go of the past and move on with their lives. He’ll become attached to his pain and refuse to release it. Often, it takes family, friends, or even counselors to show a Scorpio man that accepting the end of a relationship—and the end of his heartbreak— is in his best interest.

Scorpio Women Going Through a Breakup

When ending a relationship with a Scorpio woman, be prepared for fireworks! Scorpio women are extremely passionate and will be very vocal when getting dumped. Her heartbreak evolves into revenge, and if the relationship ends painfully enough, she may even look to get payback on her ex. Reasoning with her in this state is pointless. She will continue to seek revenge until she feels the hurt her ex feels equals her own.

 

Dating a Scorpio Woman

Got a date with a hot Scorpio woman? Just know that Scorpio women are expert seductresses. To win her over on a first date, take her to dinner and recommend the most exotic entrée on the menu. She’ll act like it’s no big deal, but know that she keeps track of every detail you reveal. Scorpio women take their time in choosing their partner. There’s never any rush. Instead, she patiently and amusedly watches as her date attempts to woo her. A word of advice: don’t ask her many questions on the first date. It’s all about you.

Dating a Scorpio Man

Got a hot date with a Scorpio guy? Congratulations, since Scorpio men only have eyes for the most beautiful, sensual, and stylish partners! While it’s true that Scorpio men are exceptionally passionate horn dogs, they do know how to behave on a first date. A Scorpio man loves when his date takes the lead. Grand gestures meant to impress him are his favorite. On a first date, recommend something intimate where you can show off your best assets, no packed bars or restaurants here.

 

Scorpio Women in the Bedroom

Scorpio women are full of steamy passion, and when she wants to make love with you, you’ll know it! Sex is essential to Scorpio women, so she usually wants to play the dominant role. Scorpio women love all the accessories that come with sex, like sexy lingerie, massaging oils, perfumes, and sex toys. Foreplay shouldn’t last too long with her. She will want to get to the main action and stay there for as long as possible. A Scorpio woman will even do everything in her power to delay her partner’s orgasm.

Scorpio Guys in the Bedroom

Scorpio men practically have unlimited sexual energy, and their instinct for sex is one of their greatest attributes. Scorpio men can be animals in bed, biting and pinching for added fun, but he does this because pain is extra pleasurable. Scorpio men have to be dominant in bed and will never give up their control, either. When making love with a Scorpio man, you must be brave and expect the unexpected.

The Best Partners for Scorpio

Capricorn, Pisces, and Leo
Scorpio and Capricorns make an excellent combo with long-lasting relationships and each partner being loyal and committed. Scorpio and Pisces together create deep bonds with lots of room for empathy. As for Scorpio and Leo's relationships, sex plays a key role. Despite the passionate outbursts that occur between Scorpios and Leos, though, they remain very intimate and close. When Scorpio and Leo can stay honest with each other, a deep level of respect will develop.

 

Scorpio and Friendship

So, you have a Scorpio friend in your life? Lucky you, since Scorpios are very picky when choosing their friends! Scorpios make excellent pals and even more entertaining company, but they usually set the terms of their friendships. They don’t usually need much friend time to stay connected. A drink every now and then is enough for them. Scorpios won’t often ask friends for help and don’t expect their friends to help them. However, if a friend is in need, Scorpios will bring all they got to help them out.

Scorpio at Work

When it comes to work, Scorpios don’t function all that well in large teams. They value their independence when working on a task. Scorpios cannot stand micromanagers either and will often quit in protest if given too much busy work. Scorpios also prefer taking on jobs they know they are suitable for, not ones with steep learning curves. Scorpios like clear, helpful instructions, but too much supervision makes them nervous. As a co-worker, though, Scorpios always lend a helping hand. Start a free chat and get immediate insight into your situation. 

Life Lessons from a Scorpio

Scorpios must recognize their natural gravitation towards love and money and strive to develop their kinder, gentler sides. Scorpios need to build more flexible, social lifestyles instead of always trying to do everything themselves. They must learn to express their needs and not burn themselves out with the constant stress and nervous energy they create throughout life.

Scorpio in Childhood

Scorpio children love playing with their best friends but do well on their own. Scorpio children love playing hide-and-seek as well as learning magic tricks. They are determined always to get what they want and develop their strong personalities early on in life. Fortunately for them, they have the charm and skills to get their way, too. Parents of Scorpio children must be strong and counter any stubbornness with determination of their own. Scorpio children will ask questions all day long and want to know every answer in the universe.

Scorpio and Travel

Scorpios love going on comfortable, luxurious vacations and dining on the most excellent food. They generally only travel with their closest friends since unfamiliar energies can make them stressed out. Although Scorpios are very sociable people, they expect their demands for the vacation to always be met, often at the expense of others’ wishes. For this reason, Scorpios may prefer traveling alone and have just as much fun doing so. Destinations that Scorpios love include Egypt, China, Greece, and Mexico.

Scorpio and Health

Scorpios must stay mindful of their mental and spiritual energies to maintain their overall health. Scorpios are like sponges. They draw negative and positive energies alike into their body from events and the environment around them. Scorpios may find themselves living in the past which produces toxins in their body. Letting go through mediation, daily walks, or yoga are excellent ways for Scorpios to achieve better health. Light exercise manifests a sense of peace which can keep the body healthy.

The Scorpio Zodiac Sign

Scorpio is the eighth sign of the Zodiac and one of the four Fixed signs. It is also associated with the element of Water and ruled by the planet Pluto. Throughout history, astrologers have found Scorpios to be mysterious, strong, intense, determined, recluse, loyal, extreme, obsessive, destructive, passionate, sexual, calm, persistent, profound, sensitive, and easily angered.

Scorpio - Autumn Signs

People born in the autumn months tend to be more critical, picky, and less spontaneous than those born in spring, while being more thoughtful than those born in summer. Autumn people excel at guarding their feelings. They have a strong need for serious, fulfilling relationships as well. Autumn people also have a keen sense of the energies around them. They tend to be less impulsive than others and control their emotions better than others. For these individuals, self-control and self-understanding are personal priorities throughout life.

Famous Scorpios

For examples of famous Scorpios throughout history consider Pablo Picasso, Hillary Rodham Clinton, François Mitterrand, Julia Roberts, Christoffel Columbus, Marie Antoinette, Bill Gates, Erasmus, John Cleese, Theodore Roosevelt, Francis Bacon, Whoopi Goldberg, Fyodor Dostoevski, Ennio Morricone, Joni Mitchel, Marie Curie, Leo Trotsky, Lee Jones, Ivan Turgenev, John Philip Sousa, Sally Field, Grace Kelly, Prince Charles, Demi Moore, Renate Rubinstein, and Nadia Comaneci. 

 

 

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Aries (21 march - 20 april)
Taurus (21 april - 21 may)
Gemini (22 may - 21 june)
Cancer (22 june - 22 july)
Leo (23 july - 23 august)
Virgo (24 august - 22 september)
Libra (23 september - 22 oktober)
Scorpio (23 oktokber - 21 november)
Sagittarius (22 november - 22 december)
 Capricorn (23 december - 20 january)
 Aquarius (21 january - 19 february)
 Pisces (20 february - 20 march)